friendship, friends.. domineering?!?

domineering.. it means, officious.. officious, meaning over-assertive.. over-assertive can be used as another term form possessive.. so ok, i've used the thesaurus offered by the MS Word just to get these terms.. clearly, you got my point about this article.. when friendship is somewhat tampered with the possessiveness of the other person involved.. when friend(s) tend to be possessive..

i am recently suffering from this kind of situation, obviously.. i don't know what to do about her.. she keeps bugging me about questions about friendship and everything.. she asks me what kind of friend she is to me, what can i say to her being my friend, etc.. those type of questions.. i had already said to her, in a nice way as i may say so, that i don't like to answer those kind of questions because it doesn't need to be discussed.. yung tipong, hindi na naman natin kailangan i discuss yan.. it doesn't need to be said, nasa actions naman yun eh.. i thought after saying something like that i thought things would get ok.. yes, it did, but for about a day or two only.. i don't what happened again but she started asking me again similar questions.. i really don't like talking about those stuff coz i think it's cheezy.. i'm starting to get irriteted whenever she asks me those question though she knows that i don't want to talk about it.. i mean, sure, she's really a good friend of mine, great as i may say but she tends to be emotional.. and now she's mad, i know so because of her GM, because i'm not answering any of her texts.. aside from not having load, i'm also avoiding her texts.. kung sinasabi niyang kilala niya na ako, dapat alam niya 'to..

i have shared this to my sister.. she gave me the idea that maybe my friend was being possessive.. infairness, she's not the only one who said that.. my most trusted friend also asked me, bakit ba masyadong niyang ginagawang big deal yung pinaggagawa mo? marami kang ibang kaibigan na nakakaalam and yet hindi ka namin masyadong pinakikialaman.. kung magkakamali ka man, alam kong kaya mong i-solve yun mag-isa.. that's what she said to me.. actually, i got her point..

as i thought about it, she's kinda right, my trusted friend that is.. i'm starting to feel that my friend is starting to somewhat "freak me out".. i dunno, dunno the exact words to describe it..

the point is.. my point is.. actually i don't know where this thoughts are going.. maybe, i just hate it whenever she starts asking me questions.. that's it..